No dream is impossible
All my life, I've been a dreamer.
Childhood was a time of questions, quandaries and dreams. As one of three daughters, our parents taught us, "no dream is impossible."
Those four words are so simple, so powerful and so true.
In today's world, most of us dream. However, too many of us are afraid to pursue our dreams. The greatest dream destroyers? Fear and inactivity. How can a dream come true, without taking continual actions?
Throughout my life, I've been blessed to meet and learn from people, whose dreams have shaped the world. Elizabeth Taylor dreamed of a world without discrimination, a world free of HIV/AIDS. And Elizabeth went to work. In her lifetime, HIV/AIDS became a manageable health issue, instead of a death sentence. Today, many in the science community believe Elizabeth's dream will happen in our lifetime. The advances in treatment are affecting people all over the globe.
Steve Jobs. Walt Disney. Rosa Parks. People with powerful visions of the future changed the way we live today. Without dreamers taking action, what would happen to our world?
What are your dreams? How will you make them happen? How will you protect them?
People who dream without a plan are hopeful and filled with imagination. Sadly, imagination without implementation is a hallucination. We must grasp our dreams and meld them with passion and focused activity.
One of my first dreams was to be self-employed. At nine, my first design job was selling painted rocks from a wagon. My sister, Mary, is a gifted artist, who sold her rocks for a dime. My rocks were just a nickel. At that affordable price, customers were buying and business was successful.
Design work kept me self-employed while waiting for my next dream to come true. I wanted my own paper route. The newspaper in our community required you to be at least 11 for such responsibility. How would the dream of a paper route enhance the dream of becoming a designer? The goal was to design and market clothing accessories at craft shows on the beach, while selling newspapers to save for college. Having a design degree was an early dream.
Just after turning 11, my dad saw an ad in the newspaper that read, "newspaper carrier wanted... are you the boy for the job?." Dad knew what kind of reaction the ad would have on his daughter's dream. After writing a letter to the editor explaining how a girl could do the job as well as any boy, it worked.
The first delivery was New Year's Day. The papers were extra thick. The young girl wondered, where was her dream amidst piles of newspapers? The dream did not include grumpy customers who wouldn't pay, a sexist customer who said girls should never deliver newspapers, and a girl, doing that job, would never last.
I didn't let that man see me cry. Dad said, "If you believe in your dream, you'll under-promise and over-deliver. If your customer expects the newspaper on their driveway, put it on the front porch."
It was great advice for newspapers and great advice for making a dream come true.
Our city had its first female newspaper carrier, and she became carrier of the year for each of the years she held the route. Whenever Warren Buffet and I speak, we always share stories about our paper routes and early customers.
My college dream of a design degree was deferred by an unexpected adventure in the fashion industry. The gawky, awkward paper carrier accidentally became a model. In a way, that modeling career offered a terrific education and tremendous doses of daily rejection. "Too tall." "Terrible hair." "Too fat." "Bad skin." "One eyebrow?"
It was endless and very helpful. Rejection made me stronger, and it can do the same thing for you.
What happened to college? Well, I'm still dreaming. And while I've been dreaming, two wonderful institutions of higher education have honored me with degrees.
Today, when people tell me "no," my reaction is - at least we're talking. As CEO and Chief Designer of our design and marketing firm, kathy ireland Worldwide, we hear the word "no" every day.
Every dreamer will be told their dreams are not possible. Please don't believe that. If you think you can do something, you're probably right. If you think you can't do something, you're probably right.
So many dreamers know what needs to be done, and procrastinate about doing the very thing that will make their dreams come true. When we lack a certain skill, what are we doing to acquire it? In this internet age, social media, our laptops and cell phones are miraculous fountains of knowledge, leveling the playing field for dreamers all around the world.
Your dreams are out there. Please, go and get them.
Editor's note: American Family has teamed up with kathy ireland World Wide to inspire people to dream and help provide them with the tools to pursue and protect their dreams at the 2013 Dream Camp. The contest encourages anyone with a dream to fulfill in 2013 to share it online with fellow dreamers, add a photo or video, and drum up votes via social media and email to get nominated as one of America's top 100 dreamers.
A panel of judges, including Kathy Ireland, will select the top three dreamers from the 100 highest vote totals. Prizes include an all-expense-paid trip to Madison, Wis., March 13-16 to attend 2013 Dream Camp. The three winners will also receive $10,000 each toward their dreams.
Enter the 2013 Dream Camp contest - or vote for your favorite entries - on the American Family Insurance YouTube channel.